Great for your overall health and well-being
We all know or have heard that doing regular exercise is highly beneficial to our overall health, mental state and general well-being. Just as a gym work out releases endorphins which make us feel good, so too does male masturbation, a bit of fun time with your favourite part of your anatomy, your Schlong!
Male Masturbating is proven to be very beneficial to your health and state of mind. It releases endorphins to make you feel good, reduces your stress levels, can help you sleep better and decreases tension in your body.
Here are some tips to help you on your way to better your experience and make it more interesting and also help intensify the end result, which we all agree is why we do it. We all love to cum!
1. Spend a bit of time setting up
You can increase your pleasurable experience in “setting up the scene”. Whether it be in the bedroom, the bathroom, on the back patio, think about what turns you on and set yourself up for success.
Some ideas for you to consider:
- turning down the lights, or turn up the lights if that’s what you like
- turn you phone off, no one likes to be interrupted
- play the music you like or pop on your favourite erotic movie
- take your time and slowly tease yourself. Keep working yourself up slowly until you get to a point that you just have to let it rip
2. Switch positions
Change things up to keep it interesting and increase your pleasure.
If you usually masturbate whilst sitting in a chair, consider laying on the bed, laying back on the couch, standing in the shower, taking a bath.
By changing your normal position to something different, can increase your arousal and increase your end result. Give it a go, you have nothing to lose but your load.
3. Take your time
Jerking yourself off doesn’t need to be as quick as you can get one out. Try a different strategy and take your time. Plan your day or schedule to allow enough time to take it slow. We know it is not always possible with everyone having a busy life and schedule, but when you can, set aside some longer quality time to pleasure yourself. When you have the time set aside, then you can experiment with various techniques such as hand position, using different hands, speedy up and slowing down, a bit of ball play thrown in for good measure. You can also experiment with toys and other viable implements and build up your repertoire of things that get you off.
Slow and steady as they say wins the race. By adopting new positions and techniques can lead to a more powerful and enhanced orgasm. Try some new things out and your will learn what works for you and where you want to go to next. A change is as good as a holiday they say.
4. Switch hands
This old trick ! Changing hands can create a whole new sensation. Almost like someone else is doing it for you, Over time and practice, you will become ambidextrous and it will become second nature as to what to do when using your other hand.
Another tip or trick is to play with your balls whilst your arm is rubbing your shaft, keep this action up and it will eventually lead to an amazing orgasm, a completely different feel on your shaft and one that you are sure to enjoy!. Looking for something more adventurous?
5. Move your hips
Moving your hips to simulate the natural grinding and thrusting you normally do when having intercourse with another, is also a way to heighten your pleasure and increase your climax.
Also try spreading your legs apart, this can add tension to the perineum and add pressure to your prostate. Including your prostate into the equation will change your whole world. We will be submitting future blogs on the involvement of your prostate, it the G-Spot for men, also known as the P-Spot. Stay tuned for that one as it will blow your mind, not to mention your load!
6. Different strokes for different blokes
The old up and down motion is an old favourite for every man, but there are many other options you can try to increase your please.
Some of the techniques may require some lube as friction if not managed correctly can lead to chaffing or broken skin, and that is painful. Fear not!, there is always lube. If you don’t have, then go and buy yourself some now!
Otherwise, there is always moisturising cream, which is ok but not suitable for play with partners if you practice safe sex. Most condoms require a water based lube and you won’t get that using moisturising cream.
Once you have your shaft lubed up, you can then experiment with a multitude of different strokes. You can try up and down strokes but introduce a twisting style. You can hold your shaft with one hand and rub around the head of your penis with the palm of the other hand. You can grab your balls at the same time as stroking your shaft. There is a multitude of different way to stroke, so try them out and see what gets you off.
7. Your Schlong is not the only thing to pay attention too!
There is so much more to the male anatomy for you to enjoy. There is your shaft of course, but your testicles will also need attention. Then there is your perineum, which is the meaty part between your balls and your anus. That area also like a bit of slap n tickle, or for another variation, try tapping it with your other hand.
Then we get to your back door. Not everyone has explored that region, particularly straight men. However, when you are along and knocking one out, you are free to explore with no fear or judgement.
If you have never been to this place before, I would recommend to start slowly. Just a touch of lube and a finger running itself around your whole will give you another dimension of sensation. Over time, if it is pleasurable to you, you may want to go the next step and insert a finger. To find your P-Spot, bend your finger towards your penis and bang! There you have your Prostate. Play with this, either by gentle rotating massage or a bit of finger banging, and before you know it, you’ll be having the best orgasm of your life.
There will be future blogs about your prostate and how to use it, treat it kindly and get the best out of it, so stay tuned for that one!
Now, on to the subject of your balls, did you know that you have almost as many nerve endings in your sack, as you do in your penis? If you want to rev things up for your pleasure, then try gently pulling down on your balls and sack, intermittently throughout your play and then again just before you cum. If pulling down on your balls and sack is not your thing, then try a tickle or gentle caress or some light tapping.
Your perineum or “taint” as it is also know, can provide great amounts of sensation and pleasure, you can play with it, stroke it, tap it or tickle it. Give it a go and see what it’s all about.
8. There is still more to explore and play with
Have you ever tried exploring the effects of paying with other parts of your body whilst you jerk off?
Other pleasure zones include your nipples, ears, your stomach, your lips and mouth just to name a few. You have nerve endings all over your body, just try them out and see how you feel. These other areas can add immensely to you pleasure and ultimately increase your final climax like you’ve never felt before. For those of you who are well versed in this area, then try adding some toys that are specific to that area, ie: nipple suction cups or clamps, even a couple of cloths pegs.
Don’t limit yourself, there are plenty of different actions you can explore with. There is rubbing, pinching, pulling, squeezing, tugging and tickling. Try one at a time and see what works for you. Then you will have plenty of other touches and sensations for your next tug.
9. Don’t ignore your prostate!
The prostate is a very unique and highly sensitive part of the male anatomy.
If you have never explored it, nor know it’s power, then it’s time. This will change your sexual pleasure like you have never imagined, and for the better!
Start slow, even just playing around with you anus. A gentle play, rub or circular motion with engage the prostate. As you progress, you can add a bit of lube and slowly start to insert a finger, or part of your finger. As you explore this part of your body and the profound effects it has, you can go in to investigate a little further each time. Over time you can increase the depth and speed as you so desire. Working this part of your body even as you approach your climax will intensify the entire experience beyond your wildest dreams. So if you have never been there, it’s time to get on board and see where it takes you!
10. Ever tried edging?
Edging is a sexual term relating to your climax. When you feel like you are on the edge and about to blow your bundle, some men find pleasure in letting go of their Schlong and pausing with their masturbation session, just for long enough to let the climax sensation subside, then you can go for it again.
By practicing edging, it can intensify the final result by a huge amount.
You can repeat the process as many times as you like and the end result will produce a massive orgasm that will astound you. Edging can increase the amount of cum that you unload. Give it a go, you won’t be disappointed!
11. Now about the toys?
There is a vast array of toys on the market, specifically designed for men. If you are feeling bored, or want to change things up, then toys are definitely an option to consider. They can give you a whole new perspective on your jack off session, and teach you things you may have never thought about, or thought may turn you on.
Some toys for you to look-up and consider are:
- Cock rings
- Fleshlights
- Pocket strokers
- Prostate massagers
- Anal beads
12. What else is there, other than porn?
I have never met any man who isn’t into watching porn. It allows us to escape to other places and fantasise about other people, without cheating on your partner (if you are in a relationship). It can also give you idea’s that you can introduce to your relationship that can spice things up and keep it interesting.
There are so many more avenues to porn that you can explore. For example, erotic stories, erotic audio books, music that turns you on, chat websites and a vast array of other pleasurable options to enhance male masturbation, just search and discover.
You can also write you own stories about past experiences, or fantasies. When you read them down the track at a later date, you will be surprised on the effect they have on you.
The final summary
Guys jerking off is a totally nature thing, It has existed for centuries and is never going to go away. I think in this day and age, it is far more widely accepted and spoken about amongst male friends.
Male masturbation makes you feel so good and the overall health benefits are amazing. It can relax you, change your mood, help you sleep better, increase your sex drive and keep you prostate active and healthy. At the end of the day, I don’t think I will get any arguments from men,….. nothing makes you feel better than a good wank and blowing your load.
