Sexual Terminology, Practices, Places where sex happens, and a brief description of their meanings
Glory holes
A “Glory Hole” is a term that is described as a hole in the wall, often in toilet blocks between cubicles and their purpose is for anonymous sexual activity. In the men’s world, a Glory Hole gives the opportunity for men to put their Schlong through the hole in the wall to be serviced in any many of fashions. They can be wanked off, sucked off, teased, licked, let your mind run wild with fantasy!
If you are in a cubicle and you are a top and the man on the other side is a bottom, you may well find yourself with the bottom back down on your Schlong. Our website at Schlong.com.au encourages safe sex, so take a condom with you, just in case you get lucky. Better off to be safe and have a great time than worry yourself that you may have participated in an unsafe act.
Glory holes have been in practice for longer than anyone can remember. They offer a sexual experience that is anonymous and gives the option to men of a sexual experience that is satisfying and for some men who may question their sexuality, an option that is guilt free sex.
Whether you are straight, bi or gay, a Glory Hole can give you what you need without having to think to much into your sexuality, because you never know who is on the other side.
Glory Holes are not just in public toilets, they exist in many back rooms of sex shops and in sex specific clubs.
There are many pornographic videos and clips that specifically cater to this taste of sexuality, you just have to search.
If Glory Holes are you thing, you can always find a place and a regular time schedule for you to explore.
“Cottaging”
Cottaging is originally a gay slang term from the United Kingdom, once again, referring to sexual acts between men that are anonymous. Generally speaking, they are in public toilets and other small and out of they way public arena’s. They can be referred to as a cottage or tea-room. Men who frequent these places “Cruise” each other. They can give a gentle nod of the head, grab their crotch or give a wink to other to let them know of their interest in pursuing some further sexual contact.
The term Cottaging, refers to the word Cottage, referring to a small, intermit place and dates back to Victorian times in the United Kingdom.
In the United States of America, the Cottaging scene is referred to as Tea-rooms, which is funny to think about as there is so much more going on there than drinking tea!!
Beats
The term Beat, in Australia, refers to a place or area, where men frequent for sex. The term beat, also refers to an area walked by police and also prostitutes. A very versatile word, make sure you get your meaning clear before proceeding. (haa haa).
Visiting or frequenting these places for sexual activity come with a certain degree of risk, they are often in parks, deserted places such as factories, bush settings and a many of all indiscriminate places.
Part of the attraction of these locations, is the fact that they are public and therefore you need to be very, very careful, not to get caught.
Quite often, police are very aware of what goes on and where, therefore you are always at risk of getting caught. For many men, this is part of the sexual adventure, but be warned, if you get caught, there can be massive ramifications to your way of life, whether it be public humiliation, it could effect your work life if prosecuted and the list goes on.
MSM
MSM is an acronym that refers to “Males who have sex with males”. Whilst this one from sexual terminology may make you immediately think of men who are gay, there is a whole world out there of men who are straight or bi that are involved.
This term was created by epidemiologists back in the 1990’s who were researching the spread of disease among men who are engaging in sexual acts with other men. No need to be alarmed, it is just the study of sexually transmitted diseases which is researched thoroughly in all sexual categories to this current day. Funny that they just came up with another category to try and put us in.
Just to reiterate, we at Schlong.com.au, do not believe in or endorse sexual categorisation, we just believe in “do what you want, be with who you want and experience what you want and what you desire”.
As we all grown from our life experiences and for that matter, sexual experiences, why is there a need to put people into a sexual category?
Frotting, also known as Frottage
Frotting is the act of 2 or more men, rubbing themselves up against another. It can be fully fully clothed or unclothed. Generally speaking in sexual terms, Frotting is where 2 or more men are participating in a sexual act of rubbing the Schlongs together for sexual pleasure. For decades and centuries, men have always enjoyed the act of rubbing their Schlongs against each other whilst masturbating and ultimately blowing their loads, quite often on each other’s Schlongs, if not onto the ground on which they stand.
Docking
Docking is the sexual practice between two men, one of them must be uncircumcised or both of them uncircumcised. In performing “Docking”, two men are opposite each other and one man inserts his Schlong into the others foreskin, moving it back and forth for sexual stimulation and pleasure. This can be done for whatever amount of time for pleasure and ultimately if done for the entire act, can result in a pleasurable ejaculation. Sorry to the two men who are both circumcised, you wont be able to perform this act nor know what it feels like, so best you find another who is uncut!
Water Sports
Water Sports also know as Golden Showers are the sexual act or fetish play where one man pisses on another man. Yet again, another practice that has been in existence for decades if not longer. The sensation of one mans urine at body temperature, hitting another mans body or Schlong and other parts, can be an amazing stimulation. Also golden showers can be performed on your own, for example, taking a shower and having a wank at the same time, you can piss on yourself, up your chest whilst wanking at the same time. If you have never tried it, maybe try it in the shower and see how your mind and sexual exploration react, you might be surprised how you react and it might be something that you enjoy and wish to explore with another person involved.
Bating, Bators and BroBators
These terms have come into play more recently, and relate to masturbating, now referred to as “Bating”, “Bators” refers to as men who are Masturbators and “BroBating” which refers to men, friends or whatever the case, enjoy masturbating together.
In your past, have you ever found yourself in a situation of jerking off with a mate, whether you were both just horny, or found yourselves watching porn together and getting hard?
“BroBators” covers a mammoth variety of situations where men find themselves in a state of arousal and wanting to go the extra mile and get off together.
It is a well know fact that younger males find themselves in their teenage years, wanting to explore their sexuality and can sometimes explore together.
This can lead to further exploration between men as they get older and enjoy the “Bro” situations they have been in.
Men are so charged by their testosterone, that sexuality goes straight out the window. When they are horny and can’t get their minds off it, men can find themselves in situations or can orchestrate a situation to satisfy their needs and desires, regardless of their sexuality. Quite a horny thought isn’t it?
Just because two or more guys may jerk off together, doesn’t mean that they are gay, bi or otherwise, they are just enjoying the moment and getting on with it.
Bukkake
Bukkake is a very, very old word that is used to describe a particular sexual act. Directly translated, it means “ to splash with liquid”, and in sexual terms, refers to a circle of men who are masturbating together and at their finally, they cum on an individual who is in the centre of the circles, and that person in the centre of the circle is totally into and up for, being cum on by everyone else in the circle around them who is masturbating.
Cream Pie
The term “Cream Pie” refers to the term or sexual act where a man ejaculates inside their sexual partner and then the semen runs out, generally creating more visual stimulation and arousal.
Felching
Felching is the sexual practice is not everyone’s thing and you may find it off putting if you are not into that kind of act. But for educational purposes, here is the explanation of this act. Felching means for one person to cum in another and then suck the semen out of them. Probably best to leave it at that, whilst brief, you get the idea. For those turned on by this, best to do an internet search to learn more.
Warning! The sexual practice of “Felching” is at a much higher risk of sexually transmitted disease and does not encourage this act without careful consideration of your circumstances, we just care about your health and wellbeing!
Snowballing
Here is a term that more people would be accustomed too, “Snowballing” refers to the act of sucking another off and letting them cum in your mouth, once again, not for everybody but a little more mainstream than the previous.
We at Schlong.com.au believe in safe sex practice and warn that the act of “Snowballing” does come with risks of sexually transmitted disease.
Fellatio
Fellatio is the correct term for the slang term of a blowjob, sucking off or giving head to someone.
The sexual act of one person sucking another’s Schlong with their mouth for sexual pleasure. Fellatio is a very common and mainstream practice that nearly everyone is familiar with, experienced or knows that it exists and quite often expected by you sexual partner, whether you are into it or not, that is to be negotiated between yourselves.
Another term that has a name, is the fellatio of someone’s scrotum or ball sack, this has a slang term known as “Teabagging”.
Then we get to the ultimate act of Auto-Fellatio , this relates to the extraordinary act of a man being able to suck himself off. It is believed that only 1% of men are able to accomplish this, an is the envy of ever man who has ever tried and failed to accomplish it.
Sorry to harp on about it, but we just want to be responsible and point out that there is significant risk of sexually transmitted diseases when performing oral sex on another.
BDSM
BDSM is an acronym that refers to the sexual acts of “Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism”.
The world of BDSM is vast and so personal, that this blog can not cover it in it’s entirety. That will be another blog or several to just scratch the surface.
In a nut shell, BDSM has been a massive part of sexual society for decades if not longer. So many people, driven by there sexual needs, desires and for that matter, driven by their entire lives and wanting to find an alternate reality, turn to BDSM.
For one example, lets say that someone has a career that puts them into a position in society, of massive responsibility, may seek out a sexual experience that puts them into a vulnerable position, thus creating an opposite experience to what the live in their day to day lives. They are often accommodated with this experience in the BDSM world.
The world of BDSM and all its sexual practices and intricacies is best left to one’s own desires and further research to find what they are looking for.
We will write a lot more blogs on the specific sexual art and practice of BDSM in the future, but it is such and intricate and personal topic, you could never expect to cover in its entirety.
Pearl Necklace
A very old and well know phrase describing the sexual act of cumming or blowing a load on someone’s neck, representing a pearl necklace. Nothing further really required to paint that picture!
Shrimping
Shrimping to some people is just totally of the table, the act of Shrimping is the act of sucking or licking your sexual partners toes before, during or after sex. For people that are into it, it can be very stimulating and arousing, for others, they couldn’t ever think of doing it. Each to their own, no judgement here!
“Edgeplay” or Edging
Don’t be put of by the name being sinister, the word “Edgeplay” or Edging refers to the sexual stimulation to the point of climax or ejaculation, and then you stop what you are doing until the sensation passes, then continue on.
Edging is believed to increase your orgasm to a much higher place and gratification.
Most people would have encountered or tried the act of Edging, but if you have never tried it, give it a go, you’ll be surprised at the results. Hoping that this blog on sexual terminology has been informative and gives you more to think about. Explore, be creative and most importantly be safe and he
